It’s said that proper speech, things done. Nearly eighty percent of matters were ruined by inappropriate expressions. There are sixty-four tips which will make you more charming when you speak. By this, you will say goodbye to unutterable, regretting, inappropriate, and irrelevant expressions when speak out.

The master of language is a crucial factor of success. Socrates, the wise man thousands of years ago, said: “There is a power in the world that can make people complete their great work quickly and gain the understanding of the world. That is the delighted ability to speak”. In modern times, people's understanding of language expression ability got deeper. Interpersonal relationship scientist Dale Carnegie said: "One person's success, 15% rely on technical knowledge, while 85% rely on eloquence art." Good language skills, not only help people succeed, but also bring us happiness. People who speak well can not only get a good job in the workplace, but also get a better relationship in their daily family life.
Most of the time, we fail to express ourselves because we ignore some details. In fact, these problems can be improved by special training. Numerous people have proved through personal experience that as long as they master correct training methods and practice hard, they will finally make it even if their language expression was not good.

Li Jin, expert on interpersonal relationship and bestselling author, has devoted himself to the study of social skills and communication art for many years and believes in the power of language. He is witty and humorous, and he knows the art of speech well. His works are sharp and pragmatic, and he is highly loved by fans. Works such as "The Art of Questioning" and "Self-control" have been published.

Chapter I Be polite, and then you will be popular
Implicitness: leave room for each other
Modesty: make you become more popular
Politeness: a matter of courtesy, as well as self-cultivation
Tact: avoid speaking too absolutely
Steadiness: do your own job
Calmness: have a calm and unhurried attitude

Chapter II Be euphemistic: the talk-art of being polite
Give mild advice, care for the dignity of others
Learn to speak conversely, make people think actively
Be a kind reminder; do not air one's dirty laundry
Be modest, show yourself properly
Do not be too straightforward, your friends are vulnerable.
Give euphemistic compliments, you will gain popularity
Put in a good word, don't make people feel embarrassed

Chapter III Be gentle and reasonable: the talk-art of not being angry
Speak politely, be amiable and money will come by
Maintain the dignity of others; do not rake up others’ faults
Say "I'm sorry", resolve the dispute
Be magnanimous; do not pull ranks on others
Do not argue, calm down first
Combine hardness with softness, you would no longer be looked down on
Be open-minded, have the ability to tolerate others
Put others in your heart , flaunt less about yourself.

Chapter IV Make friends in an active manner: the talk-art of not being stubborn
Humorous talk, enhance interpersonal attraction
Humorous remind, cleverly find excuses and eliminate embarrassment
Humorous self-deprecation, enhance personal charm
Humorous refutation, make it be accepted easily
Humorous principle, grasp the sense of propriety

Chapter V Do things flexibly: the talk-art of being sober-minded
Achieve results, affirm the efforts of others
Do things according to the rules, some words must be said before
Be broad-minded, not to be concerned for personal gains or losses
Forget all about helping others
Be humble and win the approval of others
Pay attention to the way when helping others
Sweeter talk, more methods

Chapter VI Clever Criticism: The talk-art of not hurting people
Do not always criticize, say some soft words at the right time
Keep a sense of propriety, some words should not be said directly.
Speak in other words; make the criticism sweet-sounding
Talk face to face; do not talk behind people’s back
Stick to the issues instead of people
Replace criticism by remind, make people admit mistakes on their own initiative
Affirm people first, make criticisms more acceptable
Replace negative criticism with positive praise

Chapter VII Persuade easily: the talk-art of not being forced
Talk about what other people care about and are proud of
Be a popular "nonsense box"
Stand in the other’s position; speak out their feelings
Use your enthusiasm; win the recognition from others
Make your words clear; people will not be confused
Stimulate people at the right time; they will listen to you
It’s not what you say, but how you say it that matters
Engage in small talks; persuasion will be easier

Chapter VIII Erase the embarrassment in time: the talk-art of breaking the ice
"Shooting stars tactics", remove embarrassment tactically
At a critical time, help people get rid of the dilemma
Be flexible; beat your swords into plowshares
Let people finish their talk; do not interrupt others' conversations
Do not take too much personal gains or losses into account
Say something, break the ice
Do not boast yourself in front of the frustrated
Change the expression, speak sweet words
Remember the names of others to get along well with others

Chapter IX Refuse politely: the talk-art of not being embarrassing
Say "no" elegantly, do not embarrass others
Silence is an effective way to refuse
Provide suggestions to make people accept your refusal
Transfer the topic and cleverly zip other’s mouth
Play dumb, pretend to be confused when refusing others
Find good reasons, refusing others is not difficult