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Getting a naughty kid to Say Yes!
A child with deviant behavior always has the ability to take negative behavior to the extreme. They are often moody, overly stubborn, overly dramatic, rude and impolite. They believe they have equal power with you, so they will pick fights to challenge your authority and stubbornly resist even the simplest requests to the end. He makes you feel like you’re being driven mad!
To get a naughty kid to say yes! Keep in mind this absolutely no-fail method: no growling+ praise+ best time to punish!

The most effective method of discipline without ranting
One simple question can eliminate your child’s anger. Ask your child sincerely, “Can you tell me why you are so angry?”
One sentence to calm your anger. Say to yourself, “I can close my eyes, take deep breaths, and communicate with him when I am calmer.”
One simple step to get your child to focus on listening to your words. Squat down in front of your child— look him firmly in the eye— place your hands on his shoulders— briefly whisper your request in his ear— and get up and leave.
One simple gesture to ease your irritations. Shrug your shoulders can send a powerful silent message to you— I will not overreact to my child's deviant behavior.
One word to avoid ranting and raving in the heat of the moment. Say to your child, “Let me think about it and then I'll tell you.”
One thought to keep you from splitting hairs. Tell yourself, “It’s not my fault that my child is being deliberately provocative. It’s a result of the child’s deviance issues.”
One concept to prevent you from having a meltdown with your child. Remind yourself, “I'm the one in control of my child and myself.”

Hu Linmei

Graduated from National Taiwan University with a bachelor’s degree in Chinese, she currently teaches at an elementary school in Kaohsiung and works as a gifted classroom teacher.
The author has been a versatile student since she was in elementary school, often representing her school in speech, reading, singing and composition contests, and was a frequent winner on the competition field. Now she often coaches and trains her students in speech, reading and composition, and they have won many awards.
She is also a best-selling children's book writer, and her books, such as “The Girl Who Couldn't Hear”, “Say Goodbye”, and “Comma Runs Away from School”, are extremely popular with children and teachers.
The author and his husband had a couple of children, both of whom were also highly praised by their teachers in terms of their academic performance and personality.