An ECE (early childhood education) guide which helps you to understand children’s inner world; the best-seller in the category of family education, which helps you understand and regulate children’s weird behaviors. By illustrating positive discipline and true love with living examples, Li Qunfeng, expert on parenting education, promoted parent-child relationship and benefited millions of children and parents. More than 20 provincial and municipal teachers have given the book favorable comments, and nearly 100 parent-child organizations are competing to order the book.

In daily life, parents are always confused with many of the children’s behaviors. Sometimes, children will laugh out; sometimes, they will burst into tears. Sometimes, children will fight for a toy; sometimes, they will hide in the corner alone, play and talk to themselves...
Children's behaviors are diverse, and the behavioral psychology behind their behaviors is different from that of adults. Thus, grasping the psychology behind children's behavior is the key to solving problems. This book lists some common behaviors of babies and analyzes and explains them in plain language. The profound theory has changed into a simple and easy-to-understand issue. This book points out the secrets of entering the inner world of children in a simple and easy way.

Li Qunfeng is a lecturer of Studies of Chinese Ancient Civilization at Shengheng National College of Qunfeng Education and the founder of Qunfeng International Education. He has published best-selling books that are popular among readers, such as "Carrot and Stick – the Art of Education", "The Best Education in West Point", "Cultivating Children's Emotional Quotations from Storytelling".

Preface To love children, we have to understand the child's spiritual world.

Part1 Crying - the special "language" that babies use to express their wishes to the parents

Rhythmical crying - the baby is doing sports
Read the baby's need from their cry, the response is more targeted
It is important to carefully distinguish the baby's pathological crying
In the evening, crying accompanied by screaming - neonatal colic
Sleeping quietly during the day, crying at night - Pediatric Night Cry
Crying when taken in strangers’ arms - the baby begins to be shy with strangers
Crying when separated from their mothers - separation anxiety
Coaxed more after falling, babies cry harder – nervous and scared crying

Part2 Read the baby's body language to better understand his inner world

Baby express his mind by "face"
Interpret the secret hidden in the baby's smile
Baby’s eyes express the most meanings
Baby spits bubbles, what is he expressing?
Hand movements can also reflect " a load on their mind "
Throwing things over and over again - constantly embodying the new skills learned
Like to go to the uneven place - the sensitive period of walking has arrived
Being restless is the nature of children

Part3 Understand the child's weird behavior and correctly interpret the psychological code behind the behavior

Baby has a "honey finger"
Children always cling to the mother, parents have to understand
Biting casually, it is not a malicious attack
Hitting people – it is just to get attention
Children's Fetish - From "Complete Attachment" to "Complete Independence"
Help your child to survive the anal period
Playing with the genitals is actually normal
Children like to peek at adults bathing - sexual consciousness begins to sprout
Exchange - the beginning of the child's interpersonal relationship
Children like to answer the phone

Part4 Care for the child's heart and cultivate good habits

Start learning good table manners at a young age
Make the children learn to take the initiative to pack their belongings
"Little TV addict"
Teach children to say goodbye to "Little Grinding"
Children are no longer "Little Careless"
Take someone else's things home - just out of fondness, not stealing
Baby loves an orderly life - the order sensitive period has arrived
Don't let bed-wetting hurt your child

Part5 Handle "bad" behaviors, and mom will never be upset

Like to grab someone else's things - self-awareness begins to sprout
Graffiti - the child's most original creative activity
There is a "Little destruction" in the family
My child acts up whenever guests come
Fighting with children - self-awareness is developing
Make a scene for a little disappointment - hope to get psychological satisfaction
What if the children are not gregarious?
Jealousy -- the external manifestation of the child’s self-consciousness awakening
Children didn’t intend to get in a word

Part6 Listen carefully to the child's speech, it means a lot

"Mom, where do I come from?"
Like to say "No" - the first period of resistance has come
Love to say hard words - cursing sensitive period is coming
Don't label your child with a "liar"
Children love complaints - performance of anaclisis
Keep asking "why"
"I want to marry my father (mother)!"

Appendices Understand the child's psychology, you would love him more

Understand the child's psychological needs
The psychological rules that parents should know most
Baby touch: the comfort and communication originated from the soul